"Why Nietzsche Hated Stoicism
- Marcus Nikos
- Apr 9
- 12 min read

Picture this Fredick nitzche that
philosophical Sledgehammer of the 19th
century scrolling through Modern social
media he sees Tech billionaires quoting
Marcus aelius between funding
announcements he watches as stoicism for
Success dominates bestseller lists and
fitness influencers preach emotional
Detachment as the path to six-pack abs
his reaction not scholarly interests or
grudging respect but absolute contempt
stoicism is undeniably having its
cultural moment from Silicon Valley
Executives to celebrity podcasters from
Reddit forums to airport bookstores
everyone seems to be carrying Pocket
Editions of senica and preaching the
gospel of focusing only on what you can
control this ancient Greco Roman
philosophy with its emphasis on
emotional restraint and acceptance of
Fate has found an eager audience in our
anxious uncertain world but there's one
intellectual giant who would have
watched this stoic Revival with
thunderous disdain Friedrich n the
German philosopher didn't just disagree
with stoicism he considered it a
profound betrayal of human nature a
philosophy of Life denial disguised as
wisdom spiritual anesthesia masquerading
as
strength today we're diving into this
philosophical showdown between two
Titans of Western thought and the stakes
couldn't be higher they're fighting over
nothing less than how we should live our
lives the Cornerstone of stoic
philosophy is living according to Nature
harmonizing with what they perceived as
the universe's rational design for the
stoics the cosmos operates according to
Divine reason a perfectly ordered system
where everything unfolds according to
rational
principles this is why Marcus Aurelius
could write in his meditations that
whatever happens to us is part of a
greater plan and our task is simply to
accept it with Grace n demolishes this
premise with characteristic ferocity in
Beyond Good and Evil he writes you
desire to live according to Nature oh
you Noble stoics what deceptive words
these are imagine a being like nature
wasteful beyond measure indifferent
beyond measure without purpose and
consideration without mercy and
Justice imagine indifference itself as a
power how could you live according to
this
indifference for n the natural world
isn't an ordered system but an amoral
chaotic Force completely indifferent to
human concepts of meaning or Justice
just look around tsunamis don't spare
children cancer doesn't avoid The
Virtuous and ecosystems thve on constant
brutal
competition nature isn't rational or
kind it's powerful creative destructive
and utterly indifferent to our moral
categories n accuses stoics of profound
intellectual dishonesty they project
their moral ideals onto the universe
then claim to derive those same ideals
from Nature's
example your pride wants to impose your
morality your ideal on nature and
incorporate them in her he
charges the stoic contemplating the
ordered Cosmos is less like a scientist
discovering natural laws and more like a
child seeing faces in the clouds finding
only what they already put
there stoicism's approach to emotions
the pursuit of apatha and ataraxia which
is also known as freedom from disruptive
passions and Tranquility represents for
n not psychological maturity but a
profound diminishment of human
potential in the gay science he offers a
visceral metaphor the stoic exercises
himself and swallowing stones and worms
glass shards and scorpions and not
feeling any disgust his stomach is
supposed to become indifferent in the
end to everything that the accidents of
existence might pour into it this image
captures n's Central objection stoic
emotional discipline isn't self-mastery
but self mutilation
deliberately numbing oneself to life's
full spectrum think about it is a person
who feels nothing at the loss of a loved
one stronger than someone who Grieves
deeply is someone who can't be moved by
Beauty passion or even righteous anger
truly living a full human life stoicism
fora is philosophical Botox dulling
life's Expressions while killing its
Vitality the stoics pursuit of emotional
safety is the philosophy of a caged
animal life reduced to a dull tame
existence under the illusion of
strength consider how we approach
difficult emotions today when we feel
anxiety we're often told to just breathe
or focus on what you can control classic
stoic advice but what if that anxiety is
pointing to something important we need
to address what if our anger GS wisdom
about Injustice that deserves expression
the stoic doesn't transcend suffering he
merely numbs himself to it like a
patient who chooses permanent anesthesia
over the risky Vitality of feeling alive
behind this quest for invulnerability n
detects not strength but fear
specifically fear of being deeply
affected by life's
unpredictability true power lies not in
remaining unmoved but in Having the
courage to be moved deeply and still
affirm existence is tranquility strength
or is a render to
fear modern stoics would object to this
characterization philosopher masimo
pigui argues that apathia isn't
emotional numbness but Clarity the
ability to see situations without
Distortion Donald Robertson contends
that stoicism is fundamentally proactive
not passive acceptance but strategic
focus on what matters
the modern stoic would say we don't
suppress emotions but transform them we
don't resign ourselves to fate we engage
strategically with reality we don't
counsel indifference to Injustice but
pragmatic action after all didn't Marcus
aelius actively fulfill his duties as
Emperor rather than merely accepting his
fate nevertheless n would remain deeply
skeptical while stoics emphasize
virtuous action their fundament premise
that virtue alone is sufficient for
happiness subtly undermines the creative
tension necessary for
transformation when virtue becomes its
own reward doesn't this discourage the
risky passionate engagement that drives
revolutionary change consider climate
activism a strict stoic might Focus
solely on personal virtue reducing their
carbon footprint living simply while
accepting that the global climate crisis
is largely beyond their control a nichan
approach might embrace the creative
anger that fuels movement building the
passionate commitment to transforming
what seems
unchangeable can a philosophy that makes
peace with circumstances ever truly
challenge the status
quo the stoic Sage that Paragon of
perfect rationality and virtue immune to
Fortune's blows represents for n not an
aspirational ideal but a revealing
fantasy
even the stoics acknowledged this figure
was more theoretical than actual a North
star by which to navigate rather than a
destination to reach I mistrust all
systematizer and avoid them n declares
the will to a system is a lack of
Integrity the stoic philosophical
structure attempts to impose conceptual
order on the messy reality of Human
Experience n would see the stoic Sage
not as an ideal but as a corpse to
disciplined to realize it has already
died a philosophical Taxidermy project
that preserves the form of human
greatness while draining it of all vital
fluids the Sage's bloodless Perfection
represents not Humanity's highest
achievement but its ultimate
betrayal the sages supposed achievement
of perfect Tranquility through perfect
rationality fundamentally misunderstands
what makes us human our contradictions
our passions our capacity for both
creation and
destruction what is the Seal of
Liberation n asks no longer being
ashamed in front of oneself where
stoicism seeks Freedom through rational
control over the self n finds Liberation
and honest self-acceptance
embracing even those aspects of
ourselves that resist rational Mastery
what makes this critique particularly
devastating is that it undermines
stoicism not just as incorrect but as
psychologically impossible the stoic
conception of human nature resembles an
architectural blueprint that ignores the
actual materials available for
construction n's alternative the will to
power and the Uber mench where stoicism
offers self-restraint n Champions
self-expansion his concept of Will To
Power isn't about dominating others but
the fundamental Drive behind all life
the impulse toward growth complexity and
self overcoming while stoics seek to
minimize suffering through acceptance n
sees suffering as transformative fuel
for human greatness think about it this
way would you rather be a stone unmoved
by the storm or the storm itself shaping
the landscape with your Force the stoic
aims to be the still ocean n urges you
to be the crashing wave the Uber mench
often translated as over or Superman
embodies this philosophy in
action unlike the stoic Sage who
achieves Perfection through rational
Detachment the Uber mench creates
meaning through passionate engagement
transforming suffering into self-mastery
by shaping their own values instead of
inheriting them embracing contradiction
is strength rather than weakness and
affirming life without metaphysical
consolations they craft a deeper
self-determined existence
consider artists who Channel personal
trauma into powerful creative work
entrepreneurs who fail repeatedly before
revolutionizing an industry or activists
who transform their anger at Injustice
into world changing movements these
aren't people who practiced stoic
Detachment from their circumstances
they're individuals who fully Embrace
their experiences including suffering
and transform them into something
meaningful Nan flourishing doesn't
promise tranquil but Vitality a life
characterized by intensity creative
power and joyful wisdom like a bow drawn
taau human greatness emerges precisely
from opposing forces held in productive
tension rather than resolved into
artificial Harmony where the stoic sees
the Tempest of human passion as
something to be calmed n sees it as
energy to be harnessed the stoic builds
walls against life storms n builds
windmills transforming resistance into
Power one philosophy seeks immunity from
life's chaos the other seeks to ride it
like a dangerous and magnificent Beast
so would you rather be a tranquil Pond
or a powerful River carving its own
path stoicism's emphasis on personal
virtue independent of external
conditions carries an inherently
conservative impulse by treating poverty
oppression or Injustice as
preferred indifference that do not
hinder true fulfillment stoicism raises
difficult questions if happiness is
possible even under extreme hardship why
challenge the systems that create
suffering if a slave can achieve udonia
while remaining enslaved does this not
implicitly validate existing power
structures this Dynamic plays out in
modern workplaces where corporate
stoicism subtly reinforces compliance
many companies promote stoic principles
through mindfulness programs radical
acceptance and the Mantra of controlling
what you can control all while
maintaining exploitative practices Tech
firms that encourage resilience among
overworked employees yet resist
meaningful structural change use
stoicism as a tool not for empowerment
but for
Endurance by teaching workers to adapt
rather than organize stoicism becomes a
philosophy of survival within an unjust
system rather than a means of
transforming it just look at Amazon
where warehouse workers face grueling
conditions while the company promotes
Wellness initiatives that teach
employees to manage their stress rather
than addressing its root causes or
consider how resilience training in
schools often focuses on helping
children adapt to Broken Educational
Systems rather than fixing the systems
themselves
a similar pattern emerges in politics
figures like senica counseled Emperors
on virtue and moderation yet rarely
question the legitimacy of Empire itself
even as he advised Nero to rule justly
he remained complicit in a fundamentally
unjust system stoicism refines
individual character but stops short of
imagining radical structural change
focusing on personal Integrity within
the status quo rather than challeng in
the foundations of power n in contrast
refuses to accept inherited systems as
immutable when he proclaimed I am
dynamite it was not empty bravado but a
commitment to creative
destruction where stoicism offers peace
within the system Nicha calls for its
Annihilation he demands that we break
from inherited constraints burn away
what is lifeless and create something
truer to the chaotic Vitality of
existence one of nich's most penetrating
insights is that philosophies are never
merely abstract intellectual positions
but expressions of psychological types
in Beyond Good and Evil he writes
gradually it has become clear to me what
every great philosophy has been a
confession on the part of its author and
a kind of involuntary and unconscious
Memoir applied to stoicism
this perspective reveals how the
philosophy might appeal particularly to
individuals with specific psychological
dispositions those who find uncertainty
intolerable who seek clear principles
for navigating
complexity this doesn't invalidate
stoicism but contextualizes it as one
possible response to human vulnerability
rather than Universal wisdom nich's own
philosophy similarly appeals to
different psychological types those who
experience restriction more painfully
than uncertainty who find established
systems
stifling each philosophy speaks to
different existential fears stoicism
addresses the fear of being overwhelmed
by external forces and internal passions
while n addresses the fear of
diminishment through excessive control
and
resignation each philosophical system
offers medicine for different diseases
of the
Soul think about your own temperament do
you feel more threatened by chaos or by
constraint does the thought of
surrendering control terrify you or does
the prospect of rigid self-discipline
feel like a kind of death your answer
might reveal which philosophical
approach naturally speaks to your
psychological needs the stoic and the
Nan don't just think differently they
experience the world differently finding
different aspects of existence painful
or
exhilarating the most fascinating
tension between n and stoicism emerges
in their seemingly parallel concepts of
Fate acceptance n's Amor F love of fate
meaning embracing your life so
completely you wouldn't change a single
moment of pain or Joy initially appears
strikingly similar to epitus as counsel
to wish the things which happen to be as
they
are yet this similarity conceals a
profound philosophical Gulf the stoic
accepts fate because it flows from a
provid itial Cosmic order ultimately
rational ultimately good this acceptance
rests on metaphysical Comfort what
happens must happen for the best within
divine reason's plan n's love of Fate
acknowledges no such Cosmic reassurance
his Universe offers no divine plan no
inherent meaning his omarhati represents
not resignation to a rational order but
defiant affirmation despite the the
absence of order a creative act that
transforms necessity into chosen
Destiny my formula for greatness in a
human being n writes is Amor Fati that
one wants nothing to be different not
forward not backward not in all eternity
not merely bear what is necessary but
love
it this distinction reveals the
essential difference between stoic
resignation and n an affirmation where
the stoic seeks peace through acceptance
of cosmic design n creates meaning
through the artistic transmutation of
brute
necessity consider how differently these
philosophies approach personal tragedy
the stoic finds Solas in the belief that
even terrible events serve some rational
purpose within the cosmic order when a
loved one dies the stoic reminds himself
that death is natural unavoidable and
part of a larger plan he cannot fully
comprehend but must
accept n offers no such Comfort when
tragedy strikes there is no Cosmic
purpose to discover instead he proposes
something more radical the creative
transformation of suffering itself
taking the raw material of one's fate
and reimagining it as meaningful not
because it was meant to be but because
one wills it to become meaningful the
art artist who channels grief into a
powerful work isn't accepting fate as
the stoic would they're transforming it
through creative will our contemporary
stoic Revival with its emphasis on
emotional regulation acceptance of
uncontrollables and focus on personal
virtue would likely strike n as
symptomatic of our cultural moment an
era where self-optimization replaces
self-creation where emotional management
substitutes for passionate
engagement what is the greatest thing
you can experience n asks And Thus Spoke
zarathustra it is the hour of great
contempt the hour in which even your
happiness becomes loathsome to you and
so also your reason and virtue true
philosophical growth begins not with
maxims for contentment but with profound
dissatisfaction look at how stoicism is
marketed today as a productivity hack a
Stress Management technique a way to
become a more efficient employee or
entrepreneur the philosophy has been
stripped of its deeper ethical
dimensions and repurposed as a
psychological tool for functioning
better within existing systems rather
than questioning or transforming
them in a world facing unprecedented
challenges technological transformation
Democratic fragility ecological crisis
is calm acceptance our highest virtue or
might we need the creative disruption n
championed the stoic division between
what we can and cannot control might
appear prudent but doesn't meaningful
change often begin precisely by refusing
to accept supposed limits on what humans
can
transform the Civil Rights Movement
feminist Revolution and environmental
activism all began with individuals
rejecting established boundaries between
the controllable and
uncontrollable had they adopted strict
stoic principles accept the social
conditions of their time as externals
beyond their control would these
transformative movements ever have
emerged when Martin Luther King Jr
declared I have a dream was he
practicing stoic acceptance of reality
or Nan creation of a new
reality the philosophies of stoicism and
Nan thought both address life's
fundamental uncertainty but differ in
their
aims understanding when to apply
each requires recognizing the distinct
challenges life
presents stoicism serves best in moments
of acute crisis providing immediate
emotional stability when your flight is
cancelled and raging won't help stoic
principles offer practical wisdom it
offers Clarity and objectivity in
situations that demand effective action
and helps navigate circumstances that
truly cannot be changed like terminal
illness or natural
disasters when emotional restraint
prevents harm stoicism becomes a
necessary anchor nichan thought in
contrast is vital when stagnation
threatens growth it thrives in moments
requiring creative reinvention when
challenging unjust systems demands
passionate commitment and during
transformative periods that call for
embracing uncertainty rather than
resisting it when confronting systemic
racism or Environmental ruction Nan
creative passion may drive more
meaningful change than stoic
acceptance moving between these
approaches is not arbitrary but requires
philosophical discernment the wisdom to
recognize which mode a situation
demands the true skill lies in knowing
when to build stoic fortresses and when
to embrace nichan
dynamism this oscillation between
restraint and expression acceptance and
creation m end the natural rhythms of
life
itself wisdom emerges not from rigid
adherence to either philosophy but from
the ability to shift fluidly between
them containing multitudes as Walt
Whitman might
say perhaps n's critique serves not to
invalidate stoicism but to contextualize
it to reveal it as one possible response
to human vulnerability rather than the
universal wisdom it sometimes presents
itself as as n himself acknowledged
there are many kinds of eyes and
consequently there are many kinds of
truths and consequently there is no
truth the question isn't which
philosophy is universally correct but
which illuminates your particular path
at this particular
moment so in facing life's challenges
ask not only what would a stoic do but
also what would n do and recognize that
the answer that serves life today May
differ from tomorrow's truth share this
video with someone who thinks stoicism
is the answer to everything or with a
friend who might benefit from hearing
about nich's passionate
alternative life is too complex for one
size fits all philosophies and the
conversation between these two
approaches might just help you navigate
your own path with greater wisdom and
vitality