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Overcome Fear & Anxiety

  • Writer: Marcus Nikos
    Marcus Nikos
  • Apr 21
  • 5 min read

fear is the only enemy and it's not

outside you it's a pattern that anyone

can trigger within and anyone can change

a decision made from fear is almost

always the wrong decision because you

make a decision based on fear you're

living in a world of scarcity of some

sort would people rather be happy or

outraged today the overall population

you go online you know that people want

to be outraged but why which human needs

Fear is the only enemy

are met the many you get really angry

certainty so it's because they're so

fearful they're so fearful and they've

been trained to be fearful because the

fastest way to control a population is

fear now when you're feeling really

uncertain most people value certainty as

a survival Instinct then the other one

is

significance how significant are you

when you're rting about how messed up

somebody else is 0 to 10 where would you

put it yeah maybe a 15 I would agree

with you so the two things they fear

most fear most I'm completely uncertain

what's going to happen and I'm not

enough I get rid of both of those by

ranting and it works unfortunately the

only problem is it works in the moment

so it's like sugar sugar will make you

feel good in the

moment but then what happens at you know

an hour and a half later boom you Plum

it and that's what happens to

relationships because of this anger this

is what happens to a community because

of this anger they are angry so they

don't have to feel scared they feel like

they're not enough and they're totally

uncertain about their life

Trade fear for faith

fear is what stops everybody for having

the quality of their life it isn't just

stopping your business it stops the

quality of

relationship all you got to do is trade

fear for Faith you were born with faith

it's already there I prove it to you how

do you drive down a

street with nothing but a yellow line

dividing you from

crazies who fall asleep who are drunk or

don't pay attention or texting and cross

those lines and there's nothing

protecting you but a

line and yet you still get up and drive

your car

why because the alternative is to have

no life but if you're a leader you might

be afraid but you don't let fear stop

you that's courage that's

faith it means you feel it but do it

anyway CU there's something that matters

to you more than your

fear so if you have a mission the game

changes the way we take dreams and make

them

real as we push through everything that

other people give up

about and how do we do that there's a

part of you that will make that push it

just needs to be the part you nurtured

more whatever you feed gets

bigger get stronger so you got to feed

the best part of yourself every day you

got to demand the best part of you you

got to not settle for less than you can

be or do or share or create or

give you got to not tolerate the stuff

you used to tolerate in yourself that

doesn't mean you're inhuman it doesn't

mean that you don't have bad moments it

just means they're moments they're not

days weeks months and years it's not

that you never come down it's not that

you never get knocked down it's that you

get up

quickly keep moving forward if you keep

moving forward you will achieve whatever

you dreat but you got to keep moving

forward and what will hold you back is

only one thing fear fear you're not

enough fear you don't know enough you

don't have to know enough and whether

you're enough or not something loved you

enough to give you the gift of Life a

beating heart in your chest that you did

not

earn something in this universe call it

God call it the universe call it

whatever you want to call it something

expects you to become something

more that's why it feels so good to

become more to give more to do more to

shape more to break through to overcome

your fears to strengthen yourself

and most will

miss that incredible nectar of growth

and expansion and contribution and

meaning and impact and achievement

because they let their fear dominate

them it's okay to have the fear what we

Its okay to have the fear

got to do is to be able to get Beyond it

and know it's just fear and not let

oursel come up with a story cuz the

story that protects you from your fear

is also the story that imprisons you

everyone on Earth has two primary fears

jot them down fear number one we're not

enough we're all afraid at times or not

enough you may not be feeling that right

now if your life matches your

expectations but that won't last

something will change in your

environment financially in a

relationship in business in the economy

in yourself in your body in your

emotions and you won't feel like you're

enough now not feeling enough is not

that hard horrible but it's the deepest

fear we have with someone that we really

love it's one of the worst feelings cuz

it leads to the deepest fear the second

fear we're afraid if we're not enough

that we won't be loved and you thought

now I have to do something to survive

because you know for you to survive I

need someone to put their needs ahead of

mine they got to love me so now you

learn to do something to be enough to be

loved there's a part of you that'll

always be fearful just don't let it be

in charge

There is a part of you

and there is a part of you that is

bigger than any fear there is a part of

you that is immutable there is a part of

you that is Everlasting it's beyond the

mind it's beyond the body you might call

it Soul you might call it Spirit you

might call it

Essence when that part of you is

activated for something you want to

serve bigger than

you there's a different level of

emotion and emotion is the fuel that

drives all of this you have to be will

to feel things you don't want want to

feel and push through them trust that

you're ready and put yourself into it

and you will be

amazed by what your spirit soul and

psychology will find a way to make

happen when you put yourself on the

line progress is what makes you feel a

lot as long as you're find a way to make

progress the game is totally engaging

The Game of Life the game of business

the game of relationship the game of

parenting the game of friendship

the game of spiritual

growth but it requires very simply a new

standard within

yourself 10 years from now you will

surely arrive the question is where the

question is who will you be what will

your legacy be even at that stage what's

the magic that changes their life the

right

emotions they're either breaks or

accelerators aren't they fear is the

break

and our beliefs that would guide us so

it might be useful to just decide what

you're going to begin to believe like

everything happens in my life for a

reason everything is life happening for

me even though it may look like life's

happening to

me it's difference between the manager

of circumstances and the creator of an

extraordinary life you get to decide

what you want to be how many of you have

a part of you that will not be defeated

how many have a part of you that will

not give up how many got a part of you

that will not be

denied that's the part that needs to be

in charge

 
 
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