Overcome Fear & Anxiety
- Marcus Nikos
- Apr 21
- 5 min read

fear is the only enemy and it's not
outside you it's a pattern that anyone
can trigger within and anyone can change
a decision made from fear is almost
always the wrong decision because you
make a decision based on fear you're
living in a world of scarcity of some
sort would people rather be happy or
outraged today the overall population
you go online you know that people want
to be outraged but why which human needs
Fear is the only enemy
are met the many you get really angry
certainty so it's because they're so
fearful they're so fearful and they've
been trained to be fearful because the
fastest way to control a population is
fear now when you're feeling really
uncertain most people value certainty as
a survival Instinct then the other one
is
significance how significant are you
when you're rting about how messed up
somebody else is 0 to 10 where would you
put it yeah maybe a 15 I would agree
with you so the two things they fear
most fear most I'm completely uncertain
what's going to happen and I'm not
enough I get rid of both of those by
ranting and it works unfortunately the
only problem is it works in the moment
so it's like sugar sugar will make you
feel good in the
moment but then what happens at you know
an hour and a half later boom you Plum
it and that's what happens to
relationships because of this anger this
is what happens to a community because
of this anger they are angry so they
don't have to feel scared they feel like
they're not enough and they're totally
uncertain about their life
Trade fear for faith
fear is what stops everybody for having
the quality of their life it isn't just
stopping your business it stops the
quality of
relationship all you got to do is trade
fear for Faith you were born with faith
it's already there I prove it to you how
do you drive down a
street with nothing but a yellow line
dividing you from
crazies who fall asleep who are drunk or
don't pay attention or texting and cross
those lines and there's nothing
protecting you but a
line and yet you still get up and drive
your car
why because the alternative is to have
no life but if you're a leader you might
be afraid but you don't let fear stop
you that's courage that's
faith it means you feel it but do it
anyway CU there's something that matters
to you more than your
fear so if you have a mission the game
changes the way we take dreams and make
them
real as we push through everything that
other people give up
about and how do we do that there's a
part of you that will make that push it
just needs to be the part you nurtured
more whatever you feed gets
bigger get stronger so you got to feed
the best part of yourself every day you
got to demand the best part of you you
got to not settle for less than you can
be or do or share or create or
give you got to not tolerate the stuff
you used to tolerate in yourself that
doesn't mean you're inhuman it doesn't
mean that you don't have bad moments it
just means they're moments they're not
days weeks months and years it's not
that you never come down it's not that
you never get knocked down it's that you
get up
quickly keep moving forward if you keep
moving forward you will achieve whatever
you dreat but you got to keep moving
forward and what will hold you back is
only one thing fear fear you're not
enough fear you don't know enough you
don't have to know enough and whether
you're enough or not something loved you
enough to give you the gift of Life a
beating heart in your chest that you did
not
earn something in this universe call it
God call it the universe call it
whatever you want to call it something
expects you to become something
more that's why it feels so good to
become more to give more to do more to
shape more to break through to overcome
your fears to strengthen yourself
and most will
miss that incredible nectar of growth
and expansion and contribution and
meaning and impact and achievement
because they let their fear dominate
them it's okay to have the fear what we
Its okay to have the fear
got to do is to be able to get Beyond it
and know it's just fear and not let
oursel come up with a story cuz the
story that protects you from your fear
is also the story that imprisons you
everyone on Earth has two primary fears
jot them down fear number one we're not
enough we're all afraid at times or not
enough you may not be feeling that right
now if your life matches your
expectations but that won't last
something will change in your
environment financially in a
relationship in business in the economy
in yourself in your body in your
emotions and you won't feel like you're
enough now not feeling enough is not
that hard horrible but it's the deepest
fear we have with someone that we really
love it's one of the worst feelings cuz
it leads to the deepest fear the second
fear we're afraid if we're not enough
that we won't be loved and you thought
now I have to do something to survive
because you know for you to survive I
need someone to put their needs ahead of
mine they got to love me so now you
learn to do something to be enough to be
loved there's a part of you that'll
always be fearful just don't let it be
in charge
There is a part of you
and there is a part of you that is
bigger than any fear there is a part of
you that is immutable there is a part of
you that is Everlasting it's beyond the
mind it's beyond the body you might call
it Soul you might call it Spirit you
might call it
Essence when that part of you is
activated for something you want to
serve bigger than
you there's a different level of
emotion and emotion is the fuel that
drives all of this you have to be will
to feel things you don't want want to
feel and push through them trust that
you're ready and put yourself into it
and you will be
amazed by what your spirit soul and
psychology will find a way to make
happen when you put yourself on the
line progress is what makes you feel a
lot as long as you're find a way to make
progress the game is totally engaging
The Game of Life the game of business
the game of relationship the game of
parenting the game of friendship
the game of spiritual
growth but it requires very simply a new
standard within
yourself 10 years from now you will
surely arrive the question is where the
question is who will you be what will
your legacy be even at that stage what's
the magic that changes their life the
right
emotions they're either breaks or
accelerators aren't they fear is the
break
and our beliefs that would guide us so
it might be useful to just decide what
you're going to begin to believe like
everything happens in my life for a
reason everything is life happening for
me even though it may look like life's
happening to
me it's difference between the manager
of circumstances and the creator of an
extraordinary life you get to decide
what you want to be how many of you have
a part of you that will not be defeated
how many have a part of you that will
not give up how many got a part of you
that will not be
denied that's the part that needs to be
in charge