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For This Reason No One Is Really Your Friend

  • Writer: Marcus Nikos
    Marcus Nikos
  • Apr 26
  • 11 min read

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have you ever felt that everything you

know about relationships friendship

trust has been a beautifully decorated

lie don't rush to answer Let that

question sink deep into your

mind Because to be honest you are not

ready for the truth you are about to

hear We live trapped in an illusion

fabricated to keep us docil believing in

unbreakable bonds eternal loyalty

friendships that will hold us up even in

our worst

moments But tell me how many of those

hands that swore to be with you are

still there when the storm rages

how many promises spoken with a smile

have vanished the moment they stopped

being

convenient don't look around searching

for someone to blame Don't try to

justify yourself The answer is not out

there It's inside you It always has been

We were taught to trust to build bridges

to give parts of ourselves to others as

if those ties were immune to time to

interests to power But the truth the

truth nobody wants to say out loud is

this In the real game the one played in

the shadows and not on screens trust is

bait Friendship is currency and

loyalty Loyalty is a fiction that

crumbles as soon as the conditions

change It's not cynicism It's not

bitterness It's survival It's

understanding the rules of a board you

were placed on without asking And if you

don't know them you will be just another

piece sacrificed without ceremony You

were promised that kindness would be

rewarded that honesty would open doors

that the unconditional love of friends

and allies would be your shield But here

you are wondering why the blows always

come from those you least expect Want to

know why because you were never their

priority You were their temporary need a

tool one more step towards something

they now have or no longer need And when

that happens you disappear just like

that No warnings no

explanations The real question isn't why

this happens It's much more unsettling

Why do you keep being surprised when it

does don't you see the signs or do you

prefer to cling to the fantasy to avoid

facing the brutal emptiness that remains

when you understand that in the war for

power no one truly fights for you except

yourself The human mind hates to accept

loneliness It prefers to disguise it as

companionship It would rather lie to

itself than stare into the uncomfortable

truth The moment your interests no

longer align with theirs you will be

discarded

Not out of hatred not out of cruelty

simply because you are no longer useful

It's that simple that brutal Do you feel

uncomfortable do you notice your mental

defenses rising as I speak that's normal

It's your instinct to preserve your

illusions but I warn you clinging to

them won't save you It will make you

more vulnerable Every time you believe a

bond is unbreakable you blindfold

yourself And those who cannot see do not

survive Mchavelli didn't write to

destroy your faith in humanity He wrote

to tear off the blindfold To show you

that power feeds on perceptions

strategies the ability to discern when

to trust when to pretend trust and when

to strike before being struck It's not

about becoming cold and insensitive It's

about becoming

aware Because if you don't understand

the rules of the game you will be played

The pain you feel right now that

tingling discomfort running through your

chest is natural resistance to waking

from the dream But if you keep listening

if you resist the temptation to close

this video and return to the comfort of

your false

securities something inside you will

change forever A part of you will die

And believe me you will need it to

die Do you still believe that friendship

is sacred that loyalty is eternal that

trust is given for free do you really

think the bonds you build won't be

tested when enough money power or

survival is at stake do you think people

will remain just as noble when their

personal interests are on the line let

me tell you something in advance They

won't And the sooner you understand it

the sooner you integrate it the sooner

you'll stop being easy prey in this

world full of hunters with kind smiles

I'm not here to sugarcoat reality I'm

here to deliver it to you in its rawest

sharpest most unbearable form Because

only by facing this brutal truth can you

truly start living Truly start playing

The world you see the relationships you

believe are unbreakable the trust you

offer

blindly It's all theater A theater where

each actor plays their role until the

script changes until their character

needs to betray you to survive to move

forward to simply not be

devoured Do you want to keep believing

that love conquers all that oaths of

friendship resist the fire of

self-interest

perfect Keep believing it But don't say

I didn't warn you when you wake up among

the ruins of your illusions wondering at

what point you lost everything And if

you're among the few the very few who

decide to wake up now who accept going

through the pain of disillusionment to

be reborn stronger then listen

carefully because what follows is not

for dreamers It's for strategists for

survivors for those who prefer the

discomfort of truth over the lethal

sweetness of

lies So decide

now Do you prefer to keep dreaming or do

you want to know how the game of power

is really played because once you cross

this line there's no going back Once you

realize that no one is truly

unconditionally by your side you'll

discover something even more unsettling

Your worst enemy may be and almost

always is the one who once sat smiling

at your table It's not a pleasant

thought It's an unpleasant uncomfortable

truth but a necessary one Danger rarely

comes from afar It comes from close by

It comes disguised as alliance as

companionship as common interest And the

more you ignore this law the more

vulnerable you will be to the unexpected

blow Do you know what's even more

dangerous than a declared enemy an ally

who becomes an enemy when their

circumstances change and the brutal

paradox is that the more you believe in

their unbreakable loyalty the more

exposed you are to their betrayal

because you don't suspect because you

lower your guard because you still think

affection can resist the gravity of

crossed interests It can't It won't It

never has The most expensive mistake in

the game of power is confusing temporary

affection with eternal commitment What

they swear to you today they will forget

tomorrow if it benefits them And it

won't be personal They won't do it out

of hatred They'll do it out of survival

ambition necessity Because in the end

everyone absolutely everyone fights for

their own story not yours Here's where

another principle comes into play that

you cannot ignore You must not only

distrust others you must distrust

yourself your childish desire to believe

your desperate need to find someone

real That hope is your most dangerous

weakness It doesn't matter how strong

how cold how calculating you think you

are If you still need to trust blindly

if you still crave to find an exception

you are still vulnerable And true

predators detect that vulnerability

better than anyone else Mchaveli

understood it before everyone Politics

war survival are not based on ideals but

on

calculation on knowing when to pretend

closeness and when to prepare to retreat

On knowing when to strengthen an

alliance and when to destroy it

mercilessly It's not cruelty It's

efficiency It's understanding that bonds

are not sacred They are tools And like

all tools they are used while useful

Afterwards

discarded If you want to survive in the

real world you must kill that part of

yourself that still looks for heroes

that still believes in eternal promises

Because that part is your death sentence

True strength doesn't lie in hardening

your heart It lies in educating it

teaching it to see the truth behind

words to detect the fragility of bonds

to walk with allies without ever

forgetting that under pressure anyone

can become an

enemy And here's something they never

told you In an environment where

everyone fakes loyalty real power isn't

in finding whom to trust It's in making

others depend on you Depending

emotionally on another is a mortal error

Making others depend on you That's the

master move When someone depends on you

to maintain their position their power

their status they will be loyal yes but

not out of affection out of necessity

And necessity is far more reliable than

any

promise Don't seek to be loved Seek to

be needed Don't seek love Seek influence

Love can change Influence when well

cemented makes you

indispensable And what is indispensable

is not easily

betrayed Are you starting to see how the

world really works it's not pretty It's

not fair It's brutal And the sooner you

understand it the better you'll play

Every relationship every alliance every

gesture of support must be analyzed

under the microscope of interests not

feelings Coldness is not a flaw in this

game It's a survival tool Still thinking

you can live clinging to purity in the

middle of a battlefield then be prepared

to be the first victim Because in the

real world the naive are not admired

They are used They are

devoured And here comes the crulest

lesson of all If you want to remain free

in the game of power you must accept

that at some point you will also have to

betray Not because you are evil not

because you are disloyal but because

betrayal at certain moments is not an

option it's a strategic

obligation The real question isn't if

you will betray it's when and who and

whether you will be able to do it

without emotionally collapsing Because

in this game feeling guilt is the same

as chaining yourself And a chained

player is a lost player I'm not talking

about betraying on a whim I'm not

talking about becoming a heartless

monster I'm talking about understanding

that in certain situations if you don't

betray you will be betrayed And history

doesn't reward forgotten martyrs It

rewards those who know when to cut the

tie before it becomes their noose

You have to ask yourself would you

rather be remembered as the naive fool

who died faithful to a cause that didn't

deserve it or as the player who knew

when to change boards to survive to

evolve to keep writing their own

story no one who has achieved real power

did so by being absolutely loyal to

everyone At some point everyone chose

between loyalty and survival and they

chose to

live Here in this wild terrain that

Makaveli described so precisely absolute

loyalty is a fantasy only the loser can

afford The winner understands that

loyalty is not an immutable principle

It's just another strategy And like all

strategies it must adapt change and

break when it no longer serves the

ultimate purpose Does it horrify you

good It should That means there's still

something inside you that hasn't been

molded by the brutality of the real

world But if you are willing to burn

those illusions to destroy those

childish beliefs that only make you prey

then you'll be ready for something

bigger for something only a few ever

reach The freedom to act without being a

prisoner of feelings that others will

not hesitate to

betray Because while you keep believing

in eternal friendship in blind loyalty

others have already calculated the price

of your trust And they are waiting for

you

smiling

pretending and when the time comes they

will not hesitate So ask

yourself do you want to keep being the

one who believes who hopes who trusts or

the one who decides when and how to move

the

pieces the game has already started It

has always been in

motion The only thing left to decide is

whether you will be a conscious player

or a sacrificed pawn And I warn you most

choose to be pawns because thinking this

way hurts Because accepting that no one

is truly yours that everyone has a price

that even you have one is

unbearable But those who endure that

pain who cross the void of

disillusionment who walk alone when

necessary are the only ones who truly

understand how the board works The truth

is simple In the game of power you are

either necessary or expendable You

either use or you are used You either

control the board or you are dragged off

it without even understanding why So

decide Decide right now Because while

you hesitate while you still wonder if

all this is too harsh to be true others

are already moving the pieces And

believe me they are not thinking about

saving you They are not thinking about

you at all

And now if you've made it this far I'm

going to give you something that almost

no one in this world has A real

advantage A fragment of power that you

can carry with you forever It's very

simple but very few have the courage to

apply it Listen carefully Trust everyone

but depend on no one Shake hands if

necessary but never give your arm Smile

but measure every word Accept alliances

but be prepared to break them if the

ground shakes Do not make your emotions

your armor Make them your camouflage

Because in this world those who show

their heart too much end up bleeding in

silence And no one cries for the fallen

No one builds statues for the naive

Always remember something you must never

forget Promises are double-edged weapons

Sweet words are bait And closeness is

often the prelude to betrayal Be kind

but not naive Be generous but not

predictable Be loyal yes but only to

your own

purpose Everything else whatever comes

from outside accept it as it is

temporary ephemeral

conditional Does living this way bother

you does it feel

cold perfect That means you still feel

But what you do after feeling that is

what will define whether you are just

another name in the cemetery of the

manipulated or one of the few who

learned to swim among sharks without

being devoured The world is not going to

change because you want it to The game

will not stop to fit your ideals The

board will keep moving with or without

you The only question that matters is

will you keep playing by the rules of a

world that doesn't

exist or will you finally embrace the

rawness of

reality if you want something to be

engraved into your mind forever let it

be this In power nothing is what it

seems Not the warmest smile not the

strongest hug not the most solemn

promise Everything can break Everything

can change The only real refuge is your

own ability to adapt Your cold blood

your cunning your ability to see beyond

words So now while others continue

dreaming of a fair world while others

keep selling stories of unconditional

loyalty you will have a secret advantage

You will know the truth You will know

that real power is not in trusting It's

in knowing when to act And that true

strength is not in resisting betrayal

It's in anticipating it If you have made

it this far you are different You are

not just one more Most would have closed

this video long ago unable to bear such

rawness But you haven't You're still

here And that says more about you than

any eternal friendship oath ever could

You can see what others can't bear to

look at And that believe me puts you on

another level Now I want you to leave a

comment with a phrase that shows you

understood the core of all this I want

you to write "I trust but I never

depend." I want to see how many have the

courage to publicly embrace it How many

are ready to stop being pawns and start

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blind people And now as a farewell

listen carefully The world is not a

place made for the innocent It's a

labyrinth designed for the

awake See you in the next

video Or maybe not because in this game

only those who know how to move in the

shadows manage to cross the labyrinth

without being

devoured Until

then stay

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