For This Reason No One Is Really Your Friend
- Marcus Nikos
- Apr 26
- 11 min read

have you ever felt that everything you
know about relationships friendship
trust has been a beautifully decorated
lie don't rush to answer Let that
question sink deep into your
mind Because to be honest you are not
ready for the truth you are about to
hear We live trapped in an illusion
fabricated to keep us docil believing in
unbreakable bonds eternal loyalty
friendships that will hold us up even in
our worst
moments But tell me how many of those
hands that swore to be with you are
still there when the storm rages
how many promises spoken with a smile
have vanished the moment they stopped
being
convenient don't look around searching
for someone to blame Don't try to
justify yourself The answer is not out
there It's inside you It always has been
We were taught to trust to build bridges
to give parts of ourselves to others as
if those ties were immune to time to
interests to power But the truth the
truth nobody wants to say out loud is
this In the real game the one played in
the shadows and not on screens trust is
bait Friendship is currency and
loyalty Loyalty is a fiction that
crumbles as soon as the conditions
change It's not cynicism It's not
bitterness It's survival It's
understanding the rules of a board you
were placed on without asking And if you
don't know them you will be just another
piece sacrificed without ceremony You
were promised that kindness would be
rewarded that honesty would open doors
that the unconditional love of friends
and allies would be your shield But here
you are wondering why the blows always
come from those you least expect Want to
know why because you were never their
priority You were their temporary need a
tool one more step towards something
they now have or no longer need And when
that happens you disappear just like
that No warnings no
explanations The real question isn't why
this happens It's much more unsettling
Why do you keep being surprised when it
does don't you see the signs or do you
prefer to cling to the fantasy to avoid
facing the brutal emptiness that remains
when you understand that in the war for
power no one truly fights for you except
yourself The human mind hates to accept
loneliness It prefers to disguise it as
companionship It would rather lie to
itself than stare into the uncomfortable
truth The moment your interests no
longer align with theirs you will be
discarded
Not out of hatred not out of cruelty
simply because you are no longer useful
It's that simple that brutal Do you feel
uncomfortable do you notice your mental
defenses rising as I speak that's normal
It's your instinct to preserve your
illusions but I warn you clinging to
them won't save you It will make you
more vulnerable Every time you believe a
bond is unbreakable you blindfold
yourself And those who cannot see do not
survive Mchavelli didn't write to
destroy your faith in humanity He wrote
to tear off the blindfold To show you
that power feeds on perceptions
strategies the ability to discern when
to trust when to pretend trust and when
to strike before being struck It's not
about becoming cold and insensitive It's
about becoming
aware Because if you don't understand
the rules of the game you will be played
The pain you feel right now that
tingling discomfort running through your
chest is natural resistance to waking
from the dream But if you keep listening
if you resist the temptation to close
this video and return to the comfort of
your false
securities something inside you will
change forever A part of you will die
And believe me you will need it to
die Do you still believe that friendship
is sacred that loyalty is eternal that
trust is given for free do you really
think the bonds you build won't be
tested when enough money power or
survival is at stake do you think people
will remain just as noble when their
personal interests are on the line let
me tell you something in advance They
won't And the sooner you understand it
the sooner you integrate it the sooner
you'll stop being easy prey in this
world full of hunters with kind smiles
I'm not here to sugarcoat reality I'm
here to deliver it to you in its rawest
sharpest most unbearable form Because
only by facing this brutal truth can you
truly start living Truly start playing
The world you see the relationships you
believe are unbreakable the trust you
offer
blindly It's all theater A theater where
each actor plays their role until the
script changes until their character
needs to betray you to survive to move
forward to simply not be
devoured Do you want to keep believing
that love conquers all that oaths of
friendship resist the fire of
self-interest
perfect Keep believing it But don't say
I didn't warn you when you wake up among
the ruins of your illusions wondering at
what point you lost everything And if
you're among the few the very few who
decide to wake up now who accept going
through the pain of disillusionment to
be reborn stronger then listen
carefully because what follows is not
for dreamers It's for strategists for
survivors for those who prefer the
discomfort of truth over the lethal
sweetness of
lies So decide
now Do you prefer to keep dreaming or do
you want to know how the game of power
is really played because once you cross
this line there's no going back Once you
realize that no one is truly
unconditionally by your side you'll
discover something even more unsettling
Your worst enemy may be and almost
always is the one who once sat smiling
at your table It's not a pleasant
thought It's an unpleasant uncomfortable
truth but a necessary one Danger rarely
comes from afar It comes from close by
It comes disguised as alliance as
companionship as common interest And the
more you ignore this law the more
vulnerable you will be to the unexpected
blow Do you know what's even more
dangerous than a declared enemy an ally
who becomes an enemy when their
circumstances change and the brutal
paradox is that the more you believe in
their unbreakable loyalty the more
exposed you are to their betrayal
because you don't suspect because you
lower your guard because you still think
affection can resist the gravity of
crossed interests It can't It won't It
never has The most expensive mistake in
the game of power is confusing temporary
affection with eternal commitment What
they swear to you today they will forget
tomorrow if it benefits them And it
won't be personal They won't do it out
of hatred They'll do it out of survival
ambition necessity Because in the end
everyone absolutely everyone fights for
their own story not yours Here's where
another principle comes into play that
you cannot ignore You must not only
distrust others you must distrust
yourself your childish desire to believe
your desperate need to find someone
real That hope is your most dangerous
weakness It doesn't matter how strong
how cold how calculating you think you
are If you still need to trust blindly
if you still crave to find an exception
you are still vulnerable And true
predators detect that vulnerability
better than anyone else Mchaveli
understood it before everyone Politics
war survival are not based on ideals but
on
calculation on knowing when to pretend
closeness and when to prepare to retreat
On knowing when to strengthen an
alliance and when to destroy it
mercilessly It's not cruelty It's
efficiency It's understanding that bonds
are not sacred They are tools And like
all tools they are used while useful
Afterwards
discarded If you want to survive in the
real world you must kill that part of
yourself that still looks for heroes
that still believes in eternal promises
Because that part is your death sentence
True strength doesn't lie in hardening
your heart It lies in educating it
teaching it to see the truth behind
words to detect the fragility of bonds
to walk with allies without ever
forgetting that under pressure anyone
can become an
enemy And here's something they never
told you In an environment where
everyone fakes loyalty real power isn't
in finding whom to trust It's in making
others depend on you Depending
emotionally on another is a mortal error
Making others depend on you That's the
master move When someone depends on you
to maintain their position their power
their status they will be loyal yes but
not out of affection out of necessity
And necessity is far more reliable than
any
promise Don't seek to be loved Seek to
be needed Don't seek love Seek influence
Love can change Influence when well
cemented makes you
indispensable And what is indispensable
is not easily
betrayed Are you starting to see how the
world really works it's not pretty It's
not fair It's brutal And the sooner you
understand it the better you'll play
Every relationship every alliance every
gesture of support must be analyzed
under the microscope of interests not
feelings Coldness is not a flaw in this
game It's a survival tool Still thinking
you can live clinging to purity in the
middle of a battlefield then be prepared
to be the first victim Because in the
real world the naive are not admired
They are used They are
devoured And here comes the crulest
lesson of all If you want to remain free
in the game of power you must accept
that at some point you will also have to
betray Not because you are evil not
because you are disloyal but because
betrayal at certain moments is not an
option it's a strategic
obligation The real question isn't if
you will betray it's when and who and
whether you will be able to do it
without emotionally collapsing Because
in this game feeling guilt is the same
as chaining yourself And a chained
player is a lost player I'm not talking
about betraying on a whim I'm not
talking about becoming a heartless
monster I'm talking about understanding
that in certain situations if you don't
betray you will be betrayed And history
doesn't reward forgotten martyrs It
rewards those who know when to cut the
tie before it becomes their noose
You have to ask yourself would you
rather be remembered as the naive fool
who died faithful to a cause that didn't
deserve it or as the player who knew
when to change boards to survive to
evolve to keep writing their own
story no one who has achieved real power
did so by being absolutely loyal to
everyone At some point everyone chose
between loyalty and survival and they
chose to
live Here in this wild terrain that
Makaveli described so precisely absolute
loyalty is a fantasy only the loser can
afford The winner understands that
loyalty is not an immutable principle
It's just another strategy And like all
strategies it must adapt change and
break when it no longer serves the
ultimate purpose Does it horrify you
good It should That means there's still
something inside you that hasn't been
molded by the brutality of the real
world But if you are willing to burn
those illusions to destroy those
childish beliefs that only make you prey
then you'll be ready for something
bigger for something only a few ever
reach The freedom to act without being a
prisoner of feelings that others will
not hesitate to
betray Because while you keep believing
in eternal friendship in blind loyalty
others have already calculated the price
of your trust And they are waiting for
you
smiling
pretending and when the time comes they
will not hesitate So ask
yourself do you want to keep being the
one who believes who hopes who trusts or
the one who decides when and how to move
the
pieces the game has already started It
has always been in
motion The only thing left to decide is
whether you will be a conscious player
or a sacrificed pawn And I warn you most
choose to be pawns because thinking this
way hurts Because accepting that no one
is truly yours that everyone has a price
that even you have one is
unbearable But those who endure that
pain who cross the void of
disillusionment who walk alone when
necessary are the only ones who truly
understand how the board works The truth
is simple In the game of power you are
either necessary or expendable You
either use or you are used You either
control the board or you are dragged off
it without even understanding why So
decide Decide right now Because while
you hesitate while you still wonder if
all this is too harsh to be true others
are already moving the pieces And
believe me they are not thinking about
saving you They are not thinking about
you at all
And now if you've made it this far I'm
going to give you something that almost
no one in this world has A real
advantage A fragment of power that you
can carry with you forever It's very
simple but very few have the courage to
apply it Listen carefully Trust everyone
but depend on no one Shake hands if
necessary but never give your arm Smile
but measure every word Accept alliances
but be prepared to break them if the
ground shakes Do not make your emotions
your armor Make them your camouflage
Because in this world those who show
their heart too much end up bleeding in
silence And no one cries for the fallen
No one builds statues for the naive
Always remember something you must never
forget Promises are double-edged weapons
Sweet words are bait And closeness is
often the prelude to betrayal Be kind
but not naive Be generous but not
predictable Be loyal yes but only to
your own
purpose Everything else whatever comes
from outside accept it as it is
temporary ephemeral
conditional Does living this way bother
you does it feel
cold perfect That means you still feel
But what you do after feeling that is
what will define whether you are just
another name in the cemetery of the
manipulated or one of the few who
learned to swim among sharks without
being devoured The world is not going to
change because you want it to The game
will not stop to fit your ideals The
board will keep moving with or without
you The only question that matters is
will you keep playing by the rules of a
world that doesn't
exist or will you finally embrace the
rawness of
reality if you want something to be
engraved into your mind forever let it
be this In power nothing is what it
seems Not the warmest smile not the
strongest hug not the most solemn
promise Everything can break Everything
can change The only real refuge is your
own ability to adapt Your cold blood
your cunning your ability to see beyond
words So now while others continue
dreaming of a fair world while others
keep selling stories of unconditional
loyalty you will have a secret advantage
You will know the truth You will know
that real power is not in trusting It's
in knowing when to act And that true
strength is not in resisting betrayal
It's in anticipating it If you have made
it this far you are different You are
not just one more Most would have closed
this video long ago unable to bear such
rawness But you haven't You're still
here And that says more about you than
any eternal friendship oath ever could
You can see what others can't bear to
look at And that believe me puts you on
another level Now I want you to leave a
comment with a phrase that shows you
understood the core of all this I want
you to write "I trust but I never
depend." I want to see how many have the
courage to publicly embrace it How many
are ready to stop being pawns and start
moving like real players subscribe if
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will be even more brutal This isn't
content for everyone It's content for
those who are tired of being voluntary
blind people And now as a farewell
listen carefully The world is not a
place made for the innocent It's a
labyrinth designed for the
awake See you in the next
video Or maybe not because in this game
only those who know how to move in the
shadows manage to cross the labyrinth
without being
devoured Until
then stay
invisible Stay
lethal Goodby


