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You must make pressure Your Privilege by
strangest Loop and it is a list of
things that are not doing the thing so
here is a list of things that are not
doing the thing preparing to do the
thing isn't doing the thing scheduling
time to do the thing isn't doing the
thing making a to-do list for the thing
isn't doing the thing telling people
you're going to do the thing isn't doing
the thing messaging friends who may or
may not be doing the thing isn't doing
the thing writing a tweet about
how you're going to do the thing isn't
doing the thing ha on yourself for not
doing the thing isn't doing the thing
hating on other people who have done the
thing isn't doing the thing hating on
the obstacles in the way of you doing
the thing isn't doing the thing
fantasizing about all of the Adoration
you'll receive once you do the thing
isn't doing the thing reading about how
to do the thing isn't doing the thing
reading about how other people did the
thing isn't doing the thing reading this
essay isn't doing the thing the only
thing that is doing the thing is doing
the thing what would have had to have
happened in a week for you to look back
on that week with pride maybe stop
breaking promises to yourself when you
say I'm going to wake up tomorrow at
7:00 a.m. and when the option comes to
hit the snooze button don't do it
there's one win that you've got for the
day that's action if you had a friend
and every single time that you and your
friend decided you going to go out for
dinner that friend either showed up 2
hours late or didn't show up at all you
would stop trusting that person that is
the relationship that you have with
yourself I want to maximize what I can I
want to be the best that I can be I want
to do things well and I don't want to
leave stuff on the table but I don't
want to be chasing the end goal so much
that I never actually enjoyed the
process of getting there because
ultimately that's really all that
matters if you're going to look back at
any destination realize that it was
99.9% journey and only you know one day
of celebrating achieving the thing the
few things that I know that you can do
one of the most practical ways to do it
is to put Post-it notes around the house
and when you see the Post-it notes right
on it whatever you want um just take 30
seconds to find a way to be thankful or
grateful for something that's happening
right now A positive place that you draw
mental strength from when life is
difficult has to be I just want to be
better and I'm trying my best ACT first
okay you have to lead with action
because if you are someone that deals
with a crippling sense of
insufficiency your ability to
Discount any good thoughts you have in
your mind is going to be so strong if
you try and lead with positivity first I
need to think it wish it believe it and
I will achieve it your set point of
negativity is going to just Crush that
into the ground I'm speaking from
personal experience right as the guy
that was chronically unconfident and
still has you know the impostor syndrome
that does creep
in you have to start with action it
needs to be okay what would have had to
have happened in a week's time for me to
look back on that week and find pride in
myself Pride's seen as uh something that
you uh should be ashamed of it's one of
the seven deadly sins uh but David
Goggins I did an episode with him a
couple of months ago we could put it in
the in the show notes if people are
interested and he said pride is
something that everybody misses that
having pride in your name your
performance uh the way that you show up
for other people is something that you
can do but you need to do something that
is worthy of being prideful about right
what would have had to have happened in
a week for you to look back on that week
with pride okay maybe stop breaking
promises to yourself when you say I'm
going to wake up tomorrow at 7:00 a.m.
and when the option comes to hit the
snooze button don't do
it there's one win that you've got for
the day that's action right and it is
just you know it's tried to say the
Peterson clean your room thing but the
reason that that works is that you start
with the smallest ever step and you
expand out from there you want to become
a writer you want to leave your job and
become a writer okay can you commit to
writing one blog post on substack per
week for the next 3
weeks that would make you feel like less
of a loser if you did that action has to
come first if you are the sort of person
who is chronically unconfident because
you will drag your sense of identity
behind you Mark Manson says that
identity lags behind our status by about
1 to two years so for both me and you in
2 years time will go ah I understand why
I was in LA that day and and and Look
Back start with action and make small
promises to yourself that you don't
break if you had a friend and every
single time that you and your friend
decided that you going to go out for
dinner that friend either showed up 2
hours late or didn't show up at all you
would stop trusting that person that is
the relationship that you have with
yourself you need to be able to trust
your own word and a lot of us don't
because life is very convenient and it
is easy for people
to not stick to the promises that they
set themselves because our ability to be
idealistic is always going to outstrip
reality's ability to deliver that to us
as soon as you posit an ideal you then
begin to compare yourself to that ideal
and true hell is when the person that
you are means the person that you could
have be that's all that there is you
want to be better that is something to
be proud of you want to leave it all on
the field of play you want to make
yourself as good as you can you want to
make the world a better place you want
to have an impact all of these things
are just they're all positives paying
attention has been the single greatest
competitive advantage that I've had
because I pay attention to things and I
I'm I try to be precise and I care but
also the more that you're able to let go
and not fear about stuff the more
enjoyable you'll find it so the thing
that is making you better is the thing
which is making you feel pain and this
is a perennial balance I don't think
I've ever personally actually been
disparaging of someone that has a 9 to5
because I have been someone that's had a
9 to5 albeit not for long I did it for 6
months but every single person that I
knew growing up had a 9 to5 or bigger
and my dad certainly did and then coming
from a working class a super working
class background
I've I've always felt a little bit
uncomfortable with the way that N9 to FS
are disparaged I don't think that the
only way that you can enjoy your life is
if you pivot and do something yourself I
think it's a very reliable route to do
it and I encourage as many people to do
it as possible but I I try not to look
down on people that are doing that
because it's the Lion's Share of most
people how to get past it if your
purpose is aligned within a 9 to-5
career it doesn't matter I uh I fell in
love with a essay from Jason pgin where
he said uh accept that all of your
heroes are full of [Â __Â ] Your Heroes
aren't Gods they're just regular people
who got good at One Thing by sacrificing
literally everything else and I love
this Insight that you can dress it up
however you want the work just needs
doing and you can fluff it and you can
change it and you can talk about
compounding but ultimately it comes down
to sitting at the desk and answering the
email opening the word document
recording the podcast and one of the
things that I found is a really great
hack for
me I would have none I would have no
success as a
YouTuber that I've had being a podcaster
because I work well when I have someone
else in front of me like
I would clean my room at home if mom
came and sat and like just watch or talk
to me right because I just didn't want
to [Â __Â ] do something that sucked on
my own being a YouTuber and staring down
the lens hi guys welcome back to the
channel today we're going to [Â __Â ] do
whatever we're going to do I really
really struggle with that roll the clock
forward now so talking about the price
that people pay to be the person that
you admire everyone would look at Tiger
Woods narrowly bound like I want to be
as good of a golfer as Tiger Woods and
you go yeah okay okay but do you want
the childhood do you want to spend
nearly half a decade out of the sport
with injury because of how hard you've
pushed yourself do you want to struggle
with self-worth to the point where you
basically can't have a long-term
marriage don't be chased down this
driveway with your wife in a golf club
he fell asleep at the the wheel he broke
both of his legs not long ago he's been
on antis psychotics like that is the
price that you pay to have that degree
of greatness it's a onesie right it's
not an outfit that you can pick little
different bits about
you don't get to choose one element of
someone and say I want that it's like no
no no no all of these externalities all
of the things that you really don't want
they came along for the ride as well so
this guy loves playing pickle ball and
he gets to turn up on a Saturday and
play with his friends and you know if
it's cold outside he doesn't need to go
and play and if he's tired he doesn't
need to go and play and if he's hung
over he doesn't need to go and play and
then he decides to turn pro and he
thinks I'm turning pro at this thing
that I love I can't wait to make what I
love into my career but he doesn't
realize that hey guess what if you hung
over you need to go and train yeah oh
actually no you don't get to be hung
over anymore because the guy that isn't
hung over is the guy that's training
better so you now need to stop going out
with your friends and you need to train
when it's cold and you need to work on
game tape and mindset and hydration and
nutrition you need to do snc and you
need to have a Physio and you need to
not see your family as much all of these
things came along for the ride as soon
as you decided to turn
pro is that a price that you're prepared
to pay and that's an interesting
question to ask yourself am I prepared
to sacrifice my pure unencumbered
unmolested love for this thing in order
to try and become the best at this thing
like I've made huge huge huge
developments while I was staying up
until 4: in the morning 5: in the
morning running a nightlife business you
can make huge developments in your
personal growth Journey while you're
doing a 9 to5 and if your purpose is
aligned within a 9-to-5 career it
doesn't matter like that's your thing
just lean into it enjoy that and all of
the guys that don't know when they're
supposed to start or when they're
supposed to stop or they've got to be
the Taskmaster or they don't know what
they're supposed to do today and they
don't get holidays and they don't get
all of that you don't have to worry
about any of that there are tons of
advantages of having a 9 to5 and if
you're enjoying it and your purpose is
aligned with it nail the self
development on an evening time make sure
that you lock into a hard routine and
you are going to you're going to have a
great time so I'm it genuinely genuinely
genuinely envious of people that have
great ninto FS where their purpose is
aligned to it especially if they've got
a lot of um oversight and structure
because it takes all of the pain I did a
video ages ago uh you might be be able
to find it uh I can't remember what it
was called something like uh 10 reasons
to not start your own business or
something like that and it was about
precisely this that it's not all it's
cracked up to be to go and work for
yourself so I don't know the're
disparaging of 95s I'm not on board with
that is it possible to be world class
whilst having fun that was that's the
question for me this year if maybe that
in order to be world class fun has to go
out the window and if that's the case
it'll be it'll make me sad but it's
whatever like that's a price that you
perhaps need to pay but I'm really
really trying to do this so uh what
brings me joy hanging out with my
friends uh being outdoors doing new
things visiting new places going for
good food especially in different like
Adventure and Novelty for me are uh very
invigorating it's also a great way to
make uh time slow down when people say
um I can't believe how quickly this year
has gone what they mean is I don't
remember the days that have gone so far
in this year one of the best ways that
you can slow this down is to add more
memory units and memory units are highly
derived from how much novelty there's
been if you drive the same route to work
every day for 3 years that's basically a
thousand Journeys that's condensed down
into one memory unless there's one day
in particular where it was rainy and you
skidded or you were involved in a car
crash or someone gave you a phone call
and told you that you got a raise or
whatever like you'll remember those but
because it's always the same thing it
just gets condensed down into one
essentially one memory so trying to vary
and add as much novelty in as possible
is very good as the world has become so
comfortable we're having to go out of
our way to actively seek discomfort we
inject it into our lives we artificially
inseminate it people every time that you
achieve something what you're doing is
positing a new minimum bar which you
have to get over right fantastic I've
just done this many plays or made this
piece of art that's sold for a
particular amount of money or whatever
how exciting and almost immediately
there is this sort of like post kital
realization that oh my God that's the
new bar for my best performance that's
really high that means I now need to be
even better at my next thing and someone
recently won the largest lottery in
history a$1 billion Lottery someone just
won that from a life trajectory
perspective that's potentially one of
the most disastrous things that you
could have happen to you because how are
you ever going to have a better day than
the day you woke up and found out that
you'd won a billion
dollars it's the argument is uh slow
success strategy would be to
purposefully try and drag out the wins
that you have habits hard break man and
the habit of not doing things is
unbelievably difficult to get past
it's one of the problems
with anyone that listens to your show or
my show you will love being cerebral
right you will love the idea that I can
use cognitive horsepower to just get
myself out of problems and there is a
case of learning is masturbation right
uh and believing that learning about
something is the same as enacting it and
it's not that's why it has to be action
first a quote from one of my friends
that he uses when he's thinking about a
concept is does this grow corn basically
is it useful tell me how I can use this
in my life does it grow [Â __Â ] corn
right I it's this beautifully uh
beautiful sounding concept cognitive
bias that helps me understand the way
that my brain works and my relationship
with everybody else how do I use that in
my life give me something to apply it to
and that's why with the confidence
thing choose promises that you will
never break to yourself I'm going to get
up on time for the next month I am not
going to hit the snooze button if you do
that and you look back in a month and
you go oh my God that's the first time
I've done that in Forever maybe that's a
big
win and you can do the James Clear thing
we'll write it on a board we'll track it
what gets like measured etc etc but the
main thing is just keep promises to
yourself and that is a good way to go
from here is an Insight I learned about
I want to do breath work cold plunge go
to the gym fast until 12 midday get up
on time sunlight in the eyes in the
whatever it is right that you want to
do turn it into a promise don't break
the promise you're going to lose sleep
you'll doubt whether it'll work you'll
stress to make ends meet you won't
finish your to-do list you'll wonder
whether you made the right call and have
no way to know for yours this is what
hard feels like and that's okay
everything worth doing is hard
and the more worth doing it is the
harder it is the greater the payoff the
greater the hardship if it's hard good
it means no one else will do it more for
you and it's not just me that's got
better the world is undeniably a better
place because of the sort of person that
I've become I'm a better friend I'm a
better son I'm a better boss I'm a
better partner I've had the fortune of
reaching tens of millions of people on
this you must make pressure Your Privilege by
strangest Loop and it is a list of
things that are not doing the thing so
here is a list of things that are not
doing the thing preparing to do the
thing isn't doing the thing scheduling
time to do the thing isn't doing the
thing making a to-do list for the thing
isn't doing the thing telling people
you're going to do the thing isn't doing
the thing messaging friends who may or
may not be doing the thing isn't doing
the thing writing a banger tweet about
how you're going to do the thing isn't
doing the thing ha on yourself for not
doing the thing isn't doing the thing
hating on other people who have done the
thing isn't doing the thing hating on
the obstacles in the way of you doing
the thing isn't doing the thing
fantasizing about all of the Adoration
you'll receive once you do the thing
isn't doing the thing reading about how
to do the thing isn't doing the thing
reading about how other people did the
thing isn't doing the thing reading this
essay isn't doing the thing the only
thing that is doing the thing is doing
the thing what would have had to have
happened in a week for you to look back
on that week with pride maybe stop
breaking promises to yourself when you
say I'm going to wake up tomorrow at
7:00 a.m. and when the option comes to
hit the snooze button don't do it
there's one win that you've got for the
day that's action if you had a friend
and every single time that you and your
friend decided you going to go out for
dinner that friend either showed up 2
hours late or didn't show up at all you
would stop trusting that person that is
the relationship that you have with
yourself I want to maximize what I can I
want to be the best that I can be I want
to do things well and I don't want to
leave stuff on the table but I don't
want to be chasing the end goal so much
that I never actually enjoyed the
process of getting there because
ultimately that's really all that
matters if you're going to look back at
any destination realize that it was
99.9% journey and only you know one day
of celebrating achieving the thing the
few things that I know that you can do
one of the most practical ways to do it
is to put Post-it notes around the house
and when you see the Post-it notes right
on it whatever you want um just take 30
seconds to find a way to be thankful or
grateful for something that's happening
right now A positive place that you draw
mental strength from when life is
difficult has to be I just want to be
better and I'm trying my best ACT first
okay you have to lead with action
because if you are someone that deals
with a crippling sense of
insufficiency your ability to
Discount any good thoughts you have in
your mind is going to be so strong if
you try and lead with positivity first I
need to think it wish it believe it and
I will achieve it your set point of
negativity is going to just Crush that
into the ground I'm speaking from
personal experience right as the guy
that was chronically unconfident and
still has you know the impostor syndrome
that does creep
in you have to start with action it
needs to be okay what would have had to
have happened in a week's time for me to
look back on that week and find pride in
myself Pride's seen as uh something that
you uh should be ashamed of it's one of
the seven deadly sins uh but David
Goggins I did an episode with him a
couple of months ago we could put it in
the in the show notes if people are
interested and he said pride is
something that everybody misses that
having pride in your name your
performance uh the way that you show up
for other people is something that you
can do but you need to do something that
is worthy of being prideful about right
what would have had to have happened in
a week for you to look back on that week
with pride okay maybe stop breaking
promises to yourself when you say I'm
going to wake up tomorrow at 7:00 a.m.
and when the option comes to hit the
snooze button don't do
it there's one win that you've got for
the day that's action right and it is
just you know it's tried to say the
Peterson clean your room thing but the
reason that that works is that you start
with the smallest ever step and you
expand out from there you want to become
a writer you want to leave your job and
become a writer okay can you commit to
writing one blog post on substack per
week for the next 3
weeks that would make you feel like less
of a loser if you did that action has to
come first if you are the sort of person
who is chronically unconfident because
you will drag your sense of identity
behind you Mark Manson says that
identity lags behind our status by about
1 to two years so for both me and you in
2 years time will go ah I understand why
I was in LA that day and and and Look
Back start with action and make small
promises to yourself that you don't
break if you had a friend and every
single time that you and your friend
decided that you going to go out for
dinner that friend either showed up 2
hours late or didn't show up at all you
would stop trusting that person that is
the relationship that you have with
yourself you need to be able to trust
your own word and a lot of us don't
because life is very convenient and it
is easy for people
to not stick to the promises that they
set themselves because our ability to be
idealistic is always going to outstrip
reality's ability to deliver that to us
as soon as you posit an ideal you then
begin to compare yourself to that ideal
and true hell is when the person that
you are means the person that you could
have be that's all that there is you
want to be better that is something to
be proud of you want to leave it all on
the field of play you want to make
yourself as good as you can you want to
make the world a better place you want
to have an impact all of these things
are just they're all positives paying
attention has been the single greatest
competitive advantage that I've had
because I pay attention to things and I
I'm I try to be precise and I care but
also the more that you're able to let go
and not fear about stuff the more
enjoyable you'll find it so the thing
that is making you better is the thing
which is making you feel pain and this
is a perennial balance I don't think
I've ever personally actually been
disparaging of someone that has a 9 to5
because I have been someone that's had a
9 to5 albeit not for long I did it for 6
months but every single person that I
knew growing up had a 9 to5 or bigger
and my dad certainly did and then coming
from a working class a super working
class background
I've I've always felt a little bit
uncomfortable with the way that N9 to FS
are disparaged I don't think that the
only way that you can enjoy your life is
if you pivot and do something yourself I
think it's a very reliable route to do
it and I encourage as many people to do
it as possible but I I try not to look
down on people that are doing that
because it's the Lion's Share of most
people how to get past it if your
purpose is aligned within a 9 to-5
career it doesn't matter I uh I fell in
love with a essay from Jason pgin where
he said uh accept that all of your
heroes are full of [Â __Â ] Your Heroes
aren't Gods they're just regular people
who got good at One Thing by sacrificing
literally everything else and I love
this Insight that you can dress it up
however you want the work just needs
doing and you can fluff it and you can
change it and you can talk about
compounding but ultimately it comes down
to sitting at the desk and answering the
email opening the word document
recording the podcast and one of the
things that I found is a really great
hack for
me I would have none I would have no
success as a
YouTuber that I've had being a podcaster
because I work well when I have someone
else in front of me like
I would clean my room at home if mom
came and sat and like just watch or talk
to me right because I just didn't want
to [Â __Â ] do something that sucked on
my own being a YouTuber and staring down
the lens hi guys welcome back to the
channel today we're going to [Â __Â ] do
whatever we're going to do I really
really struggle with that roll the clock
forward now so talking about the price
that people pay to be the person that
you admire everyone would look at Tiger
Woods narrowly bound like I want to be
as good of a golfer as Tiger Woods and
you go yeah okay okay but do you want
the childhood do you want to spend
nearly half a decade out of the sport
with injury because of how hard you've
pushed yourself do you want to struggle
with self-worth to the point where you
basically can't have a long-term
marriage don't be chased down this
driveway with your wife in a golf club
he fell asleep at the the wheel he broke
both of his legs not long ago he's been
on antis psychotics like that is the
price that you pay to have that degree
of greatness it's a onesie right it's
not an outfit that you can pick little
different bits about
you don't get to choose one element of
someone and say I want that it's like no
no no no all of these externalities all
of the things that you really don't want
they came along for the ride as well so
this guy loves playing pickle ball and
he gets to turn up on a Saturday and
play with his friends and you know if
it's cold outside he doesn't need to go
and play and if he's tired he doesn't
need to go and play and if he's hung
over he doesn't need to go and play and
then he decides to turn pro and he
thinks I'm turning pro at this thing
that I love I can't wait to make what I
love into my career but he doesn't
realize that hey guess what if you hung
over you need to go and train yeah oh
actually no you don't get to be hung
over anymore because the guy that isn't
hung over is the guy that's training
better so you now need to stop going out
with your friends and you need to train
when it's cold and you need to work on
game tape and mindset and hydration and
nutrition you need to do snc and you
need to have a Physio and you need to
not see your family as much all of these
things came along for the ride as soon
as you decided to turn
pro is that a price that you're prepared
to pay and that's an interesting
question to ask yourself am I prepared
to sacrifice my pure unencumbered
unmolested love for this thing in order
to try and become the best at this thing
like I've made huge huge huge
developments while I was staying up
until 4: in the morning 5: in the
morning running a nightlife business you
can make huge developments in your
personal growth Journey while you're
doing a 9 to5 and if your purpose is
aligned within a 9-to-5 career it
doesn't matter like that's your thing
just lean into it enjoy that and all of
the guys that don't know when they're
supposed to start or when they're
supposed to stop or they've got to be
the Taskmaster or they don't know what
they're supposed to do today and they
don't get holidays and they don't get
all of that you don't have to worry
about any of that there are tons of
advantages of having a 9 to5 and if
you're enjoying it and your purpose is
aligned with it nail the self
development on an evening time make sure
that you lock into a hard routine and
you are going to you're going to have a
great time so I'm it genuinely genuinely
genuinely envious of people that have
great ninto FS where their purpose is
aligned to it especially if they've got
a lot of um oversight and structure
because it takes all of the pain I did a
video ages ago uh you might be be able
to find it uh I can't remember what it
was called something like uh 10 reasons
to not start your own business or
something like that and it was about
precisely this that it's not all it's
cracked up to be to go and work for
yourself so I don't know the're
disparaging of 95s I'm not on board with
that is it possible to be world class
whilst having fun that was that's the
question for me this year if maybe that
in order to be world class fun has to go
out the window and if that's the case
it'll be it'll make me sad but it's
whatever like that's a price that you
perhaps need to pay but I'm really
really trying to do this so uh what
brings me joy hanging out with my
friends uh being outdoors doing new
things visiting new places going for
good food especially in different like
Adventure and Novelty for me are uh very
invigorating it's also a great way to
make uh time slow down when people say
um I can't believe how quickly this year
has gone what they mean is I don't
remember the days that have gone so far
in this year one of the best ways that
you can slow this down is to add more
memory units and memory units are highly
derived from how much novelty there's
been if you drive the same route to work
every day for 3 years that's basically a
thousand Journeys that's condensed down
into one memory unless there's one day
in particular where it was rainy and you
skidded or you were involved in a car
crash or someone gave you a phone call
and told you that you got a raise or
whatever like you'll remember those but
because it's always the same thing it
just gets condensed down into one
essentially one memory so trying to vary
and add as much novelty in as possible
is very good as the world has become so
comfortable we're having to go out of
our way to actively seek discomfort we
inject it into our lives we artificially
inseminate it people every time that you
achieve something what you're doing is
positing a new minimum bar which you
have to get over right fantastic I've
just done this many plays or made this
piece of art that's sold for a
particular amount of money or whatever
how exciting and almost immediately
there is this sort of like post kital
realization that oh my God that's the
new bar for my best performance that's
really high that means I now need to be
even better at my next thing and someone
recently won the largest lottery in
history a$1 billion Lottery someone just
won that from a life trajectory
perspective that's potentially one of
the most disastrous things that you
could have happen to you because how are
you ever going to have a better day than
the day you woke up and found out that
you'd won a billion
dollars it's the argument is uh slow
success strategy would be to
purposefully try and drag out the wins
that you have habits hard break man and
the habit of not doing things is
unbelievably difficult to get past
it's one of the problems
with anyone that listens to your show or
my show you will love being cerebral
right you will love the idea that I can
use cognitive horsepower to just get
myself out of problems and there is a
case of learning is masturbation right
uh and believing that learning about
something is the same as enacting it and
it's not that's why it has to be action
first a quote from one of my friends
that he uses when he's thinking about a
concept is does this grow corn basically
is it useful tell me how I can use this
in my life does it grow [Â __Â ] corn
right I it's this beautifully uh
beautiful sounding concept cognitive
bias that helps me understand the way
that my brain works and my relationship
with everybody else how do I use that in
my life give me something to apply it to
and that's why with the confidence
thing choose promises that you will
never break to yourself I'm going to get
up on time for the next month I am not
going to hit the snooze button if you do
that and you look back in a month and
you go oh my God that's the first time
I've done that in Forever maybe that's a
big
win and you can do the James Clear thing
we'll write it on a board we'll track it
what gets like measured etc etc but the
main thing is just keep promises to
yourself and that is a good way to go
from here is an Insight I learned about
I want to do breath work cold plunge go
to the gym fast until 12 midday get up
on time sunlight in the eyes in the
whatever it is right that you want to
do turn it into a promise don't break
the promise you're going to lose sleep
you'll doubt whether it'll work you'll
stress to make ends meet you won't
finish your to-do list you'll wonder
whether you made the right call and have
no way to know for yours this is what
hard feels like and that's okay
everything worth doing is hard
and the more worth doing it is the
harder it is the greater the payoff the
greater the hardship if it's hard good
it means no one else will do it more for
you and it's not just me that's got
better the world is undeniably a better
place because of the sort of person that
I've become I'm a better friend I'm a
better son I'm a better boss I'm a
better partner I've had the fortune of
reaching tens of millions of people on
this podcast and I've given tedx talks
and I've improved the texture of my own
daily existence because of the process
that your work triggered you do not know
the depth of impact that your work has
had and if the option had been there I
and probably a lot of other people would
have happily taken on our share of your
suffering over the last year if it would
have somehow helped as a thank you for
how you've helped us so thank you and I've given tedx talks
and I've improved the texture of my own
daily existence because of the process
that your work triggered you do not know
the depth of impact that your work has
had and if the option had been there I
and probably a lot of other people would
have happily taken on our share of your
suffering over the last year if it would
have somehow helped as a thank you for
how you've helped us so thank you