Today's Boys are soft...
- Marcus Nikos
- Feb 15, 2025
- 11 min read

to the ancient Greek Aristocrat danger
and hardship were seen as good things
even fear was a god they celebrated it
was actually comfort and security that
were seen as the true dangers where they
tried to live up to the mighty myths of
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Heracles and
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odyusa through adversity we try to make
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life as comfortable as possible our
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modern value system has been completely
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reversed from that of classical times
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nature the 19th century philosopher saw
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this with astounding Clarity and tried
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to warn us away from The Temptations of
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an easy life yet many have fallen into
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this trap if I gave you the option of an
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easy life full of comfort and pleasure
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or a hard life full of danger Beauty and
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meaning what would you choose one
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inevitably leads to shallow misery while
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the other makes the soul sing with
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vitality and growth I'm looking for
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someone to share in an
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[Music]
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adventure an
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adventure now I don't imagine anyone
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west of Bri would have much interest in
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Adventures nasty disturbing
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uncomfortable
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things make you're late for
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dinner imagine if bbo baggin or Frodo
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The Hobbit from Lord of the Ring
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never left the sh would you want to read
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that story it would be boring as hell
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and yet that is the story most of us
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write for ourselves unconsciously we say
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we want a great life but aren't willing
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to pay the price for it whenever
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suffering or uncertainty arise we run
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from it or cower in pain when gets
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difficult we seek the easy path and tend
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to let fear dictate our paths rather
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than courage we want success without
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effort Adventures without Danger there
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is Limitless potential for greatness
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within each of us but most will never
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realize it because they live for Comfort
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rather than
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Victory on the extreme end of humanity
the domestication of man
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many people want robots and AI to do
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everything difficult for them they want
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pills for every discomfort and
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entertainment for every dull hour if the
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Som drug of the Brave New World was
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invented most would take the
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dehumanizing Bliss pill without a second
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thought no wonder n said Society has
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tamed the wolf into a dog and man is the
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most domesticated animal of
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all the Shih Tzu is a direct descendant
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of the gry wolf of China years of
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comfort and breeding for the weaker
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qualities destroyed the very essence
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that made it a wolf wolves are Fierce
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self-reliant and Powerful creatures that
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could take down a thousand pound Caribou
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they fight and live Wild free and are
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connected to one another the Shih Tzu
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however is dependent on its Master
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rolling around in its baby carriage and
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fed consistent meals it has become a
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shadow of its former self its instincts
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and feelings are dimmed its bark and
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bite are nullified its Soul has been
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trimmed down to the faintest echo of the
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original wolf spirit that prowled the
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hills the Shih Tzu may be cute but only
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the wolf is
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majestic unfortunately we more closely
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resemble a shih tzu than a wolf likee
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ancestors and we wonder why we are
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miserable while swiping away on screens
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in dark rooms eating frozen meals and
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shunning our Natural Instincts this is
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what the Greeks and Nicha warned against
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the cult of weakness nche foresaw this
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remarkable de Evolution and warned of
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the coming last man which we covered in
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the previous video the last man is akin
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to a shih tzu someone who lives a
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superficial life without aim or
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aspiration as a slave to their weaker
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nature today we are talking about the
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antidote to the last man if you're
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watching this you're probably one of the
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Brave spirits who reject modernity and
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want to bring forth the highest version
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of yourself and culture in n's
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philosophy this aspiration is the
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prerequisite for greatness along with
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learning to live heroically and suffer
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well so much of my own life has been a
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desperate struggle through resistance
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hardship heartbreak and fear to bring
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forth the potential I feel inside along
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the way the lessons and stories of
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Heroes and Warrior philosophers from the
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past have inspired me most n was one of
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those Inspirations he sought to elevate
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what makes man most healthy and
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spiritually alive and his heroic
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philosophy has been a sweet nectar
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through times of trouble he saw that the
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greatness within man could only be
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manifested through great aim
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self-overcoming and from acquiring ing a
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taste for suffering and danger this
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video is about the latter here in the
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first video in n's guide to Greatness we
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are diving into his advice for the free
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spirits of tomorrow and how suffering
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makes you beautiful thanks for joining
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Life-affirmation
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launch part one life
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affirmation for believe me the secret
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for harvesting from existence the
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greatest fruitfulness and the greatest
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enjoyment is to live
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dangerously the problem is is suffering
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sucks getting sick breaking your arm
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losing something or someone you love
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feeling lonely pain it's all tragic and
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no one can fix that about life no matter
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how hard they try unfortunately we don't
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have a positive sense for the tragic
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drama of living anymore not like the
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ancient Greeks anyway and as a result we
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have lost our taste for danger and
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exalted suffering n identified two
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approaches to life and the inherent
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suffering it holds life denial or life
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affirmation life denial is the chosen
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path of the West I call it the way of
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the shih tzu life deniers negate the way
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of nature the way of strength and pursue
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safety and comfort externally they hate
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suffering and pain and discomfort as
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evil things so they try to escape it
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they try to fix it these life deniers
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try to make the world perfectly safe and
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equal as to make existence as easy as
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possible for them and as safe as
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possible for the herd of shih tzus that
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is their highest value making life easy
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and equal and safe to these life deniers
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and preachers of equality n would ask
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what is the purpose of
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civilization is it to make everyone safe
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and pacified with pleasure or is it to
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produce higher types of men and women
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who can push the human species forward
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is not the production of high culture
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and radically free and vital human
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beings the purpose of all of this
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Society Stuff n would say we have lost
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our aim and without an aim we are Paving
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our way to hell with good
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intentions life affirmation is the
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opposite path to life denial and it was
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nich's solution to creating the most
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robust type of person and
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civilization life affirms do not seek to
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fix Nature's Way They seek to thrive
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through challenge they affirm the wild
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mysterious and marvelous ordeal of
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living as it is they do not seek to
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escape suffering but overcome it they
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Revel in competition and in conquering
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themselves as a result of this approach
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they build up their self-reliance and
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internal resources instead of relying on
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external Securities to protect them
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where life deniers become dependent on
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other people and institutions for their
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safety and well-being life affirms take
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full responsibility for themselves life
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affirms live dangerously where other
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people stay safe they choose resistance
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over ease and because of this Spirit of
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heroism they become
Life-denial and false utopia
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free
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life denial or life affirmation
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represent the two possible paths we can
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take to deal with suffering and
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uncertainty one makes you progressively
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weaker while the other makes you
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stronger and more profound than ever
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before n saw that our entire moral
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system as a people will come to reflect
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which path we choose to walk do we value
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equality and safety for the herd as the
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highest ideal or heroism nobility and
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the production of high culture I'm not
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arguing that one set of values is
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totally unimportant but that we have to
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get clear on what is most
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important I just read The Giver a
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fabulous book depicting a society that
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first appears as a Utopia led by
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Progressive social systems and a wise
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circle of Elders everything is set up
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under the principle of sameness there is
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no contrast no great pain or inequality
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or suffering everything is orderly and
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perfect all the system systems work
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smoothly everyone is safe and there is
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no social or personal disharmony
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whatsoever even death is removed from
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society and rered a release from the
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community as you read further though
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this once Utopia slowly turns into a
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dystopia of a disturbing variety under
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the sameness it feels as if the very
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essence of life has been removed the
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main character slowly awakens to this
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dystopia after he was chosen to receive
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the dreams and memories of the world
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before the sameness he was mesmerized by
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the memories of cold and hot and snow
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and changes in the seasons he was
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overwhelmed by the Majesty of color
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because up until then everything in his
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world was whitewashed gray he realized
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that war suffering attachment and pain
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had been eradicated from his community
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but with them went love and a sense of
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family and excitement and Beauty in
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whitewashed equality there was no
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Vitality left in life without great pain
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and trials there was no joy and
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exultation there was no great grief
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sorrow or true feeling in total sameness
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there was no valleys or Peaks just a
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dull happiness that was not true
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happiness at all this book The Giver and
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others like the Brave New World by Aldis
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Huxley provide a beautiful warning for
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modern times when we try to legislate
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and manage Society to make everyone
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equal safe and happy life loses its zest
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its power its love personal Utopia or
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Collective Utopia is not earned through
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denying life and trying to fix it but
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only through affirming the struggle of
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life as it is every golden age of
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humanity from ancient Greece to the
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Renaissance has come from this heroic
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mentality of Life
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affirmation
Heroic suffering & the ubermensch
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n said in the genealogy of morals quote
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he even seeks it out provided he has
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shown a meaning for it a purpose of
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suffering the meaninglessness of
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suffering not suffering itself was the
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curse that lay over mankind so far all
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right here's the deal if you want to
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live an excellent life and bring forth
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your greatness from within you have to
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learn to see suffering as a good thing
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let me repeat that you need need to see
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suffering as a good thing even a great
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thing you must learn to embrace
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discomfort pain heart emotional distress
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and especially resistance and fear as
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worthy things and direct them towards
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your highest aim you see your highest
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form your most dominant life lies on the
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other side of the highest resistance if
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you want to become the man you could be
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you need to retrain mind to see
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resistance and pain and even suffering
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as positive things in life I just want
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to jump in here and say that I have an
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entire chapter in my book called heroic
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suffering and others unworthy aim and
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self-overcoming there's so much
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practical steps and philosophy and
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exercises in those chapters that I could
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never possibly hope to cover in a video
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like this so go read more in there in
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short to fully affirm life you must
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possess a strong enough why when the
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boxer aims to be a world champion all
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the Blood Sweat and Tears become
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meaningful rather than miserable most
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people wouldn't last one hour in his
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training but for him the pain only
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lights a fire in his spirit because he's
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committed to an ideal he lives above
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suffering in a sense I love the scene
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from Batman Begins where Bruce Wayne
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commits to becoming a symbol of
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something greater when we do this in our
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own own lives it puts all of our
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suffering in perspective because all of
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a sudden we have a purpose a meaning in
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the pain vigilante is just a man lost in
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the Scramble for his own gratification
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he can be destroyed or locked
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up
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but if you make yourself more than just
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a man if you devote yourself to an ideal
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and if they can't stop
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you then you become something else
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entirely
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which
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is Legend Mr
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Wayne this is the way of the warrior and
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the way of
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self-actualizers we must fix our sights
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on a worthy ideal that inspires us and
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dedicate ourselves wholeheartedly to
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Excellence in its fulfillment the Uber
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MCH is the highest aim of man in nich's
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eyes an idea we will investigate later
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but what's important here is that we
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choose to suffer willingly for something
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greater than our petty lives we must
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rise to the challenges of living and
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redeem the pain of life in some way this
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shift is literally the polar difference
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between the last man and higher types of
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individuals the higher types fight they
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fight to affirm their suffering and rise
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to overcome it in this overcoming they
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grow deeper and more powerful than ever
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before loneliness for instance is a good
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thing most don't see it that way most
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seek to escape it through Tinder
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drinking video games or shallow stupid
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relationships I've personally been
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dealing with a lot of feelings of
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loneliness this past month and it has
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been a practice not to distract myself
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or take just any hand extended toward me
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unless it is of the highest quality
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person sitting on the mountain by myself
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the other night a voice came to me it
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said loneliness is a gift channel that
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pain into deep creative and spiritual
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effort that voice was right I'll not
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always be alone or have such quality
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time for creative and spiritual depth so
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instead of longing for a different more
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easy reality I chose the one I have and
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brought the fire of my spirit into it
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that is the path n advised the path of
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self-overcoming of rising into adversity
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oddly enough suffering with honor and
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meaning tends to bring the most intense
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feelings of joy and connection with the
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profound world around me it brings me
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alive the internal shift towards heroism
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amidst hardship and discomfort is the
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key to your greatness but this skill
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cannot be taught you must figure out for
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yourself how to invoke the heroic spirit
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in your dark hours it is always hard the
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hero call is difficult to answer but
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absolutely transformative so many people
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let the weak voice in their heads win
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they live as a slave beneath fear
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resistance and suffering but the path of
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the warrior of the Uber MCH in a sense
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is to overcome these dragons and
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transmute Darkness into
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light for Life AFF firmers strength is
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the solution to suffering not comfort
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and safety if you wish to live the good
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life to thrive in excellence and Beauty
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you must become stronger you must learn
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to channel the the pain of life into
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deeper love wisdom and power Heroes rise
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to the occasion in the ordeal of living
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and this is your
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call if you want the full guide to n and
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heroism in the modern day I encourage
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you to get a copy of my new book the
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