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This Too Shall Pass.

  • Writer: Marcus Nikos
    Marcus Nikos
  • Feb 19
  • 6 min read



Nothing lasts forever not you not me not

the things we love nor the things we

hate everything that exists is in motion

flowing toward some unknown end Empires

crumble mountains erode even the Stars

will one day Fade Into

Darkness there is an old saying ancient

and Universal this too shall pass a

reminder whispered in moments of sorrow

and repeated in time times of

Triumph some say it originated in Persia

others attribute it to King Solomon and

variations of it exist across cultures

and centuries it is an inescapable truth

one we are forced to confront whether we

want to or not impermanence is a

double-edged sword it can be a bomb for

suffering because no pain lasts forever

but it is also a thief robbing us of

everything we hold dear the Great

greatest Joys the deepest loves even

Humanity with its towering cities and

boundless dreams will one day be reduced

to

dust imagine for a moment that you are

at the peak of Happiness maybe it's the

Embrace of someone you love the moment

you achieve a long fought Victory the

warmth of a sunset that seems made for

you alone in that instant you are whole

you want to stay there forever now

imagine the opposite a time of deep

suffering grief heartbreak failure a

moment so painful it seems like nothing

will ever be good again you feel stuck

as if time itself has conspired against

you trapping you in an endless loop of

Despair but here's the truth both of

these moments will pass no matter how

much you want to hold on to the good it

will slip through your fingers and no

matter how much the pain feels Eternal

it too will fade leaving only a distant

memory

heraclitus the ancient Greek philosopher

put it simply no man ever steps in the

same river twice for it is not the same

river and he is not the same man

everything flows you are never the same

person from one moment to the next even

your thoughts your beliefs and the way

you see the world are in constant motion

and yet we resist this truth why because

we crave permanence we build

relationships hoping they will last

forever we Chase success hoping it will

solidify our worth we search for meaning

in things we can possess things we can

claim as ours but impermanence does not

negotiate the people we love will change

some will leave some will drift away

some will no longer be the people they

once were even if we are lucky enough to

keep them death will one day separate us

and yet impermanence is not just loss it

is also possibility

if everything were fixed if nothing

could change then pain would be Eternal

every mistake permanent every failure

final but impermanence means reinvention

it means transformation so the question

is do we fight against it or do we learn

to move with it for the German

philosopher Friedrich n impermanence was

not a burden but a challenge he did not

believe in clinging to the past or

Mourning the law of what once was

instead he asked a radical question what

if you had to live this exact life every

moment every pain every Joy over and

over again

forever this idea known as eternal

recurrence Forces us to confront a

brutal reality if our life were to

repeat eternally would we live

differently would we make different

choices would we embrace the present

more fully this is where amorfati comes

in the love of Fate n did not simply

advocate for acceptance of life as it is

he demanded something more radical to

love it to own it to say yes to

everything that happens not just in

resignation but in full Embrace to n

impermanence wasn't a tragedy it was

fuel a challenge to live so fully so

intensely that the passing nature of all

things became irrelevant

because What mattered was not how long

something lasted but how deeply it was

lived imagine for a moment what that

means it means not just tolerating

hardship but embracing it as necessary

even meaningful it means not just

acknowledging the past but loving it

every mistake every heartbreak every

failure because without them you would

not be who you are n saw impermanence as

a call to action if nothing lasts then

every moment is a chance to create to

push forward to mold life into something

meaningful it is not about waiting for

things to happen it is about shaping

them this is the opposite of resignation

it is an act of defiance against

passivity it is saying yes nothing lasts

but while I am here while I have time I

will live so fully that impermanence no

longer frightens me if n's response to

impermanence is to seize life and to

master faith

Buddhism offers an opposite yet equally

profound approach to let go at the heart

of Buddhist thought is a simple

undeniable truth everything changes but

instead of seeing this as a challenge to

overcome Buddhism teaches that our

suffering comes not from change itself

but from our resistance to it why do we

suffer when things end because we cling

we attach ourselves to people to exper

experiences to the illusion that

anything can be truly ours forever we

fight against the inevitable trying to

hold water in our hands forgetting that

the tighter we squeeze the faster it

slips through our

fingers the Buddha Illustrated this with

the parable of the burning house imagine

a man trapped in a house that is on fire

but instead of escaping he is distracted

by the furniture the walls the objects

he does not want to lose he hesitates he

does not want to leave behind the things

he loves but the house is burning

whether he accepts it or not this

Buddhism teaches is our condition we are

all clinging to something that is

already disappearing we attach ourselves

to the idea that love should last

forever that success should be permanent

that youth should never fade but

everything we love is already changing

every relationship is evolving every

moment is passing into the next so what

is the solution

non attachment this does not mean apathy

it does not mean withdrawing from life

nor does it mean avoiding love ambition

or Joy it means participating fully

while accepting that everything is

temporary to love someone deeply but not

to suffer when they change because

change is inevitable to enjoy success

but not to Define Yourself by it because

success comes and goes Zen Buddhism

often Compares life to a river you

cannot hold on to the water if you try

it slips through your fingers but you

can let it flow you can move with it to

the Buddhist mind peace comes not from

controlling impermanence but from moving

with it like a leaf floating down a

stream surrendering to the flow rather

than resisting it here lies one of the

deepest philosophical tensions n says do

not surrender fight shape your fate make

the fleeting moments so meaningful that

their impermanence does not matter

Buddhism says do not fight let go accept

the more you cling the more you suffer

both reject clinging to permanence but

they arrive at opposite conclusions

niches amorfati is a war cry against

passivity a call to say yes to life to

make it meaningful through strength

action and Defiance to embrace

impermanence not by accepting it but by

conquering it through sheer force of

will Buddhism on the other hand sees

peace not in Domination but in surrender

instead of grasping at the fleeting it

asks us to loosen our grip entirely one

approach is about Mastery the other is

about release which is right there is no

Universal answer some are drawn to n's

fire the idea that if we live intensely

enough impermanence loses its sting

others find truth in the Buddhist view

realizing that suffering comes from

resistance and freedom comes from

acceptance perhaps the balance lies

somewhere in between we live as if time

is endless as if there will always be

more chances more tomorrows more

opportunities to become the person we

imagine ourselves to be but time doesn't

wait it moves whether we're ready or not

whether we notice or not the days blur

the years vanish and suddenly the future

we assumed was waiting for us is already

behind us we put off our dreams delay

our happiness and leave important words

unspoken always assuming we'll have

another chance the people you thought

would always be there have drifted away

the moments you were too distracted to

appreciate are now just Distant Memories

the version of yourself that once had

Endless Possibilities has slowly faded

into someone who only watches life

happen instead in of living it there

will never be a perfect time there will

never be a version of you that feels

completely ready the only time you will

ever have is now if you don't start

living today when will you impermanence

is both a burden and a gift it takes

everything from us but it also gives us

everything we will ever have this too

shall pass is not just a warning it is a

reminder a call to appreciate what is

here now to to live before it is gone

 
 

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